Many people asked why does in spite being single I stayed happy and contented? Maybe the real question is did anybody even tried to court me? Just kidding!
I belong to NBSB (No boyfriend since birth) group and I am happy just to be the way it is. Maybe it was a choice. I am not afraid of relationships but I really believed that I haven’t seen the right man. The real reason behind my happiness is my family.
A 29 year old girl who is always there for my family and friends. I am surrounded with lots of love from the people I worked with, from the classmates and friends I had shared my memories with, from my family who I spend all my life with. I am a person who organizes and plans get togethers and family events and reunions. I love seeing my loveones enjoying each others company and I am having a lot of fun hosting and making every audience smile. I am an entrepreneur as well! Yes it is not that obvious as I do not have much of material richest but I had been into selling goods even when I was still in Grade 1. You give me fruits and voila!! My grandfather will see be putting the fruits in the basket and going door to door to sell the delicious fruits and make a small profit from it. These and many fun and exciting activity makes me appreciate life more.
Seeing an imperfect situation perfectly, there are still times that I do not feel good about myself. But then I realize that for me to give love, I have to love myself first. How can I give something that I do not have? My mentor once told me that “Wait” is the hardest answer of all. Sometimes it is easier to accept no because of its certainty. But sometimes you have to realize that saying No may mean “Not Yet”. Yes it may mean no Mr. Right yet for 29 years. But hey you won’ notice it a bit as long as you will surround yourself with loving people. Not all prayers are answered in exactly the exact package that we would want them to be because it is being answered in the best way that it should be.
Yes in order to find Mr. Right, be Ms. Right and right now I am happy the way it is and I know that if it is His will, I will be able to meet Mr. Right. If I did not meet him, I know that it is what needs to happen and everything will work for good. As long as I am serving the people around me and I have a great relationships with the people around me I can say that when I reached my old age and look back to the things that happened into my life, I will look back and smile that I live my life with NO REGRETS. GO FOR IT!!
unstoppablejackie 